Valentine’s Day Isn’t Just About Romance, It’s About How You Treat Yourself

Valentine’s Day has a reputation problem. For some people it’s sweet and joyful. For others, it’s awkward, lonely, triggering, or just aggressively commercial. A Hallmark holiday built on roses, prix fixe menus, and the quiet implication that if you’re not partnered (or not happily partnered), you’re somehow missing out. And honestly? That critique isn’t wrong. But […]
Why “New Year, New You” Is Bulls**t (and What to Do Instead)

Every January, we’re sold the same story. That somewhere between December 31 and January 1, we are supposed to wake up and decide to do a whole person overhaul and become a better, fixed, more disciplined version of ourselves. Healthier. Calmer. Thinner. More productive. Less messy. Less emotional. Less… us. “New Year, New You” sounds hopeful, […]